Relations
Relations
What does it mean?
Its begin from our home basically when we are on the phase of learning.During our childhood age we were exploring many things around us like family, friends, places and much more. And everything have their own specialty.
Same as our kids also noticing all these things that how we are dealing on different locations and places.
Remember you are the role model of your son/daughter so, how would be our performance in our home.
Yes, PERFORMANCE.
The word performance has its own depth of many things..... PERFECT , ENERGETIC , RESPECT ,
FRIENDLY, OBEY FULL , REALISTIC, MAINTAIN, ADVENTUROUS, NICE , CO OPERATIVE, EDUCATED.
When we have all these specialty in our character so it becomes our performance. So, Today you will check your number of performance that how many things you have in your personality because its directly related to our relations also.
If , from all above point anything is missing in you so we will not expect that our kids give us the
good feedback i will define you how much its important to all these things would be in one man/woman should have.
1:PERFECT
Its not like to carry good get up so, you will be perfect. According to my point of view the perfect means that you are use too to get up early in the morning its also having further details in it . The man who get's up early and offer namaz( Saaalah) So, its mean he is having the power to say Thank you to Allah & in resultant he will give you uncountable blessings in the form of many angels around you who will protect you whole day till night.
Amazing!
But, unfortunately people love to sleep late at night nearly the time of Tahajud and get up late after rising sun and think that they have done their job even they perform saalah also as they don't know the time of Fajar. Kindly keep in mind that if we perform fajar namaz after rising the Sun its mean we are obeying Dajal ( nau zu bilah) because the perfect time of fajar is between 4:30 to 5:00 am.
so, our punctuality reflects our perfectness first.
2: ENERGETIC:
When we are perfect to wake up early in the morning so automatically we will be energetic because
fresh air will give you energy and boost your power too.
3: RESPECT:
All the things are interconnected with each other like respect is not just belong for elders only its also belongs to each and every member of our family.
But now a days in a very rare places we observed such type of people who talk and converse with full respect. If we talk about family its mean that circle where we are standing, office, school, college, university, occasional anywhere these are also our family. The manners and attitude which we hold whole day our inner soul will be habitual of that quality and then you like to talk only with such people who have manners and you give them respect its give and take process as you have listen about these sayings.
4: FRIENDLY
Its the key part of this word ( relations) everyone like to talk with that people who is friendly its not
necessary to whom age it may belong. when we start conversation we should be give them friendly
atmosphere at first level . During the conversation you can easily judge them are they able to talk in a friendly way or restricted manners but always takes start in a good manner and train this thing to your little ones also.
5: OBEY FULL
The word own its self the reflection of good people the one who have this quality will gain respect and people also like to obey you.
6:REALISTIC
This quality is hold by very rare people but one who have this thing , he is the most favorite one of Allah. Because our creator dont like that people behave rudely with any one so be positive and show case your real nature be realistic.
7:MAINTAIN
That person who have all above qualities so definitely he / she would be well maintained too . They always like to do work on time and maintain their schedule as well its very helpful for you to set a time for all those things which you want to do in a day . Try to write notes on it like : namaz, exercise, office, net, lunch, meet up, family, outing etc etc.
8: ADVENTUROUS
We should be little bit adventurous type personality means people like to explore you.They like to learn from you. and if they will ask you about this habit then give them good advice to makes them perfect.
9: NICE
whenever we meet someone so our words counts a lot its give you respect as well as falls. Always act nicely and it may happen when we have patience its doesn't matter how the other one is behaving with you but when you act nicely still with them then they able to know that how they will treat with you.
10: CO OPERATIVE
We should be co operative with each another a man who don't have this ability will never expect that someone will help him in difficult situations because Allah is watching us and from unexpected directions and ways he will resolve our problems which we cant understand all these are the forms of blessings.
11: EDUCATED
Last but not least education is the most important thing but all above points takes part firstly to make yourself role model for your little one.
Editor: Syed Ansa Hussain
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